19

Dec

Alfonso C. Mandrachia, M.D., 1913-2007

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Al with Eidan, Christmas 2006 - the youngest and the oldestAl with Eidan, Christmas 2006 - the youngest and the oldest
Al with Eidan, Christmas 2006 - the youngest and the oldest
Al with 3 of his great grandchildren: Kai, Matthew, and Alexandra, July 2004Al with 3 of his great grandchildren: Kai, Matthew, and Alexandra, July 2004
Al with 3 of his great grandchildren: Kai, Matthew, and Alexandra, July 2004

My grandfather passed away yesterday, at 94 years old. His health had steadily deteriorated over the past year, so it was not unexpected. He always took great pride in the accomplishments of his 4 children, 9 grandchildren, and 5 great-grandchildren. Including both sides of my family, he was the last of his generation, and I miss him already.

He especially enjoyed telling stories of his parents, who left behind a life of poverty in Sicily to start a new life in Boston. I am named after his father, Michael Mandrachia, who was a master mason. My grandfather told me more than once how his father could eyeball a job site and make corrections to the engineers’ estimates of how much cement they would need. I like to think that some small fragment of that talent lives on in me.

Feb 20, 1944 - Al Mandrachia and Eloise with their daughter Susan (my mom)Feb 20, 1944 - Al Mandrachia and Eloise with their daughter Susan (my mom)
Feb 20, 1944 - Al Mandrachia and Eloise with their daughter Susan (my mom)

If you asked him to, he’d also tell stories about his experiences in Europe during World War II as a doctor in the Army. But it was never like “there goes Popi with his war stories again.” His tales were always fascinating, and I don’t think I ever heard the same story twice. The last one he told me, just a few months ago, took place after the war had ended, and he was attached to a couple of OSS agents (the OSS was the predecessor of the CIA) for a mission. They were dispatched to a ski resort to retrieve a couple of Nazi colonels. The OSS had learned that the colonels had gone to the top of the mountain, where they had stashed a supply of food. They then cut the lines for the lifts, and hoped they could ride out the aftermath of the war there, unreachable and unnoticed. So my grandfather and the agents had to climb the mountain to arrest them, and fortunately they surrendered peacefully.

What impressed me the most about him over the years, watching him grow old as I grew up, was that he always challenged himself. After he stopped working, he took up dancing. When he could no longer dance, he revived his interest in painting. (I wrote a post last year about an exhibition of his paintings), When he could no longer paint, he took up writing poetry. And through all of that, almost to his last day, he played the stock market, and was amazingly successful at it. Just a couple of months ago he made a very generous contribution to the boys’ college fund. If it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t have been able to afford my first year of grad school at Georgetown, as loans only covered half the tuition (fortunately I received a fellowship that covered my tuition for the remaining years).

Here is the draft of his obituary, written by my aunt, and there are a couple more pictures below.

ALFONSO C. MANDRACHIA, M.D.

MELROSE – Alfonso C. Mandrachia, M.D., died peacefully the 18th day of December 2007 with family at his side. He was born in 1913 in Chelsea, MA, the son of Michael and Susie (Montalbano) Mandrachia. Raised in Everett, MA, he was a graduate of Tufts University and Middlesex University (precursor to Brandeis University) School of Medicine. A volunteer, he served during World War II with the 86th Infantry Division, the 169th Medical Battalion (Separate) and the 10th Armored Division, and attained the rank of major. His overseas campaigns included Normandy, Northern France, Rhineland, the Ardennes, and Central Europe. He was the medical officer assigned to the examination of a number of high-ranking enemy officers, and was awarded both a Bronze Star and the Purple Heart.

Following his discharge, he established his medical practice in Everett and completed post-graduate study at Tufts College Medical School, Pratt Diagnostic Hospital, and the Boston Dispensary Clinic. He had a long career as a family practitioner, and was as devoted to his patients as they were to him, routinely making housecalls long after they had otherwise become a rarity. He was a member of the Everett Medical Society, the Massachusetts Medical Society, and the Lambda Phi Mu Medical Fraternity. Over the years, he served as chief of the medical staff at Whidden Memorial Hospital (Everett), and city physician for the city of Everett, and was company physician at General Electric in Everett and Automatic Radio in Melrose. He and his family have lived in Melrose since 1954.

A member of the lacrosse team at Tufts, Al was an avid skier, golfer, oil painter, and bridge player in his adult years. He also enjoyed crossword puzzles and writing poetry. An exhibit of his paintings was displayed last year at the Melrose Public Library, and playing bridge at the Milano Center with the “Sunshine Boys” was one of his favorite activities.

He leaves his devoted and loving wife, Elizabeth Cserhalmi. He was predeceased by his cherished wife of almost fifty years, Eloise (Saunders) Mandrachia. He will be most remembered for his deep and abiding affection for, and pride in, his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He leaves three daughters and one son, who will miss him greviously: Susan Kenny Killebrew and husband David of New York City and Newport, R.I.; Priscilla Mandrachia and husband Vincent Ferraro of South Hadley, MA; Michelle Barbati and husband Joseph of Melrose; and A. Charles Mandrachia, Jr. of Melrose. Popi leaves nine grandchildren to treasure his memory, E’loise Tamer, Rebecca Toppa, Michael Toppa, John Kenny, Nathaniel Ferraro, Zachary Ferraro, Alexander Barbati, Matthew Barbati, and Cora Barbati. Also, five great-grandchildren on whom he doted: Alexander Tamer, Matthew and Alexandra Brown, and Kai and Eidan Toppa. Also predeceased by his sisters Florence (Mandrachia) Augello and Catherine (Mandrachia) Joyce, he leaves several nieces and a nephew.

A special remembrance will be held with the Sunshine Boys at the Milano Center at a date to be announced. No other services will be held and the family requests no flowers. Memorial contributions may be made to the Melrose Public Library, 69 West Emerson St., Melrose, MA 02176 or The Fitch House, 75 Lake Ave, Melrose, MA 02176.

A sampling of Al Mandrachia's paintings, on display in Melrose, MAA sampling of Al Mandrachia’s paintings, on display in Melrose, MA
A sampling of Al Mandrachia’s paintings, on display in Melrose, MA
The Mandrachia clan, probably around 1983. Al is standing near the middle, with the white shirt, and that's me (Michael) next to him in the green shirt.The Mandrachia clan, probably around 1983. Al is standing near the middle, with the white shirt, and that’s me (Michael) next to him in the green shirt.
The Mandrachia clan, probably around 1983. Al is standing near the middle, with the white shirt, and that’s me (Michael) next to him in the green shirt.

6

Dec

Summer Beach Pics From Newport

Topic: Kai and Eidan
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My sister's boyfriend Paul with EidanMy sister’s boyfriend Paul with Eidan
My sister’s boyfriend Paul with Eidan

In honor of yesterday’s unexpected early winter snowfall here in Philly, I decided it’s finally time to post pictures from our trip to Newport this summer. The first couple of pictures below are from a performance of the Navy Show Band at the Newport Art Museum. The Museum hosts a summer evening picnic series of musical performances. The tourists come for the Jazz and Folk Festivals, and the locals go to the Art Museum shows. The rest of the pictures are from Hazard’s Beach, where the boys spent most of their days during our week and half stay in August. My sister was visiting at the same time, so her kids - Matthew and Alex - are in some of the pictures. They live in Texas, so it’s nice for the kids to have a chance to get together in Newport. I spent my childhood summers at Hazard’s, so I think it’s great the boys get to spend some time there too.

Folks settling in for a performance at the Newport Art Muesum
Folks settling in for a performance at the Newport Art Muesum
The Navy Show Band performing at the Newport Art Museum
The Navy Show Band performing at the Newport Art Museum
Hazard's Beach in Newport, RI
Hazard’s Beach in Newport, RI
Kai and his cousin Alexandra
Kai and his cousin Alexandra
Kai, with his cousins Matthew and Alex
Kai, with his cousins Matthew and Alex
Alex, Matthew, and Kai
Alex, Matthew, and Kai
Kai on the beach with charcoal on his nose
Kai on the beach with charcoal on his nose
Alex and Kai
Alex and Kai
Eidan at Hazard's Beach
Eidan at Hazard’s Beach
Paul pulling Kai and Eidan across the sand
Paul pulling Kai and Eidan across the sand
Kai (with charcoal on his face) and Alex enjoying s'mores
Kai (with charcoal on his face) and Alex enjoying s’mores

30

Aug

American Idol Rejects

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American Idol rejects - my brother John and his girlfriend Miss tried out for American Idol, along with 1,000 other people, in Providence, RI
American Idol rejects - my brother John and his girlfriend Miss tried out for American Idol, along with 1,000 other people, in Providence, RI

My brother John and his girlfriend Miss - doing their best to look like braindead hicks in this picture - sang in the American Idol tryouts last month in Cranston, RI. John said there were hundreds of eager folks there to try out. Everyone had to sing a capella and solo - Miss did a song from Little Mermaid and John sang the old blues standby Sitting On Top of the World. He said he blanked on some of the lyrics while singing it, but was able to substitute some lines from the NoMeansNo version without missing a beat. That’s my boy :-) ! John wasn’t planning to tryout, but when he told his boss Miss was going, his boss offered him the day off with pay if he agreed to sing too. So John was proud that he was probably the only person getting paid to be there.

They weren’t shocked or crestfallen that they weren’t among the finalists. But John said it was bizarre and sad to see how devastated some folks were. There were even people who were so agitated they threw up when they found out they were rejected. If you’ve put all your eggs in the basket of making it onto American Idol, you probably need some help. Fortunately there weren’t many who had such extreme reactions. Overall, it sounds like it was a good time.

6

Jul

Lew’s Wedding

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The bride and groom (Lew and Cheryl), Lew's siblings, and their families (minus my family, and one sister and her family)The bride and groom (Lew and Cheryl), Lew’s siblings, and their families (minus my family, and one sister and her family)
The bride and groom (Lew and Cheryl), Lew’s siblings, and their families (minus my family, and one sister and her family)

My trip to Newport last weekend was a feverish whirlwind. Feverish because I had a cold, and a whirlwind because I covered a lot of ground in the 36 hours I was there. I arrived Saturday evening, just in time for a night-before-the-wedding party. It was at the Newport Yacht Club - I hadn’t been in there in almost 25 years, and was amazed to see that it had hardly changed at all. And they still have their bizarre ritual of shooting off a miniature - but extraordinarily loud - cannon when they lower the flag at sunset. My step-brother Lew has been living in LA for at least 10 years now, and we’ve seen each other only a handful of times since he moved there. So the party was my first opportunity to get to know some of his friends and bride to be. I had a cold and wasn’t feeling well, but I looked good, which is all that really matters ;-) (Maria had a nice suit made for me when she was in Vietnam).

On Sunday I still wasn’t feeling great, but I drove up to Boston with my nephew Alexander, brother John, and his girlfriend Miss to visit my grandfather. He’ll turn 94 next month. His health is not good these days, so I didn’t want to miss an opportunity to see him. It was a good visit, but unfortunately the trip there took almost 3 hours in each direction because of horrific traffic (it usually takes less than 2). So I made it back to Newport feeling worn out, and just in time for the start of the wedding at 6pm.

The wedding ceremony was held in the sand at 1st beach (aka Easton’s Beach). It was nicely done, with a great mix of traditions - Lew and Cheryl had a Scottish bagpiper, a friend read an Irish poem, and Lew broke a glass underfoot after the ceremony was complete, which is a Jewish tradition. My step-nephew (if there is such a term) was the ringbearer, and I had one piece of advise for him: don’t drop the ring in the sand!

The reception was also at the beach, in the Rotunda. We also had use of the carousel, which my sister was excited about - I think she rode it half a dozen times.

Then I was back on a plane early Monday morning, and after arriving in Philly, took the train straight to work, to start my first full-time day since I came back from Japan (I had been working part-time while I had the boys and Maria was still in Japan). I enjoyed seeing everyone and was very glad to be there for the wedding - I just wish I had been feeling better.

Lew and Mike, just before Lew got married, at 1st beach in Newport
Lew and Mike, just before Lew got married, at 1st beach in Newport
Lew and Cheryl, getting married on a piece of plywood in the sand
Lew and Cheryl, getting married on a piece of plywood in the sand
Mike and E'loise on the carousel at 1st beach, Newport
Mike and E’loise on the carousel at 1st beach, Newport
My sisters E'loise and Nichole on the carousel
My sisters E’loise and Nichole on the carousel